Do you ever felt like you are different from others? Do people sometime find you very odd and strange? And so to fix this, you try your hardest to fit in and to be ‘like’ by others, till you feel like you are a whole different person and just because you want to live what others expect you to live. Although sometimes it feel nice to be ‘like’ and to feel so inclusive into society standard that you are willing to sacrifice who you are. However, there will be a day where you look into the mirror and not recognizing yourself. You have lost your identity in exchange to living in pretense.
Always know this, that each one of us are design, wired and created in such a way that is different, one of a kind, unique, special a from others. Learn to accept for who you are. Do not let others say things that discount your worth. There will always be pressure from society forcing you to fit into their nature, but you need be strong staying true to yourself. Don’t fit into others but fit in yourself, be yourself, you are the only you in whole of the universe.
Why fit in when you are born to stand out!Dr. Seuss
Why choose to be someone else? To be blended in will lose your special quality only you possess. From the words of Susane Colasanti, ‘I rather be weird and happy than normal and miserable. Your weirdness is what make you special, your strangeness is what make you stand out from the rest. You shine when you are you. When you act like yourself, you will drive out the wrong people in your life and will attract the right people in your life. These are the ones that will make you feel special and appreciated. We are not here to fit and blend in, we are here to shine and stand out.
No One ever make a difference by being like someone else.P.T Barnum